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What do you notice about stress relief at work when you have no patience and you colleagues are having fun?

Cecil McIntosh, Mississauga Spiritual Relaxation Coach with over 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, gifted Teacher, Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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I recall a time when I went to visit my dentist. There was a couple – husband and wife – in front of me and I particularly noticed that the wife, let’s call her Susie, was very nervous.

Her arms came from between her legs and rested on the arm of the chair. Her legs uncrossed at the ankles and she sat in the chair totally relaxed for a moment.

But guess what?

As soon as she remembered that she was not actually on the beach in Mexico and heard her inner chatter of all the negative thoughts of being in the dental chair – her arms returned between her legs, and her legs crossed at the ankles.

And believe it or not, then she started rocking back and forth looking to see when she would be called in the have her teeth cleaned.

What’s this got to do with you?

You’ll be glad to know that it’s all about Spiritual Relaxation and being in the moment.

Here’s the real truth.

When I suggested that she pretend that she was on the beach in a bathing suit, she became totally relaxed and was experiencing spiritual relaxation.

You see we all experience spiritual relaxation on a daily basis. The problem is, that it is very fleeting and out of our consciousness just like Susie.

Here’s the real kicker:

The reason why we have this problem is that we do not have a practical stress relief program that teaches us how to access that experience FROM our unconscious mind under any circumstance.

Astonishing isn’t it?

So you see being in the moment (spiritual relaxation) is not the problem. And what’s worse…

…is the lack of a practical and proven stress relief program that teaches you how to find that moment when necessary.

Here’s the thing:

It’s true that you practice spiritual relaxation for fleeting moments each day.

So what would happen in your life if you experienced spiritual relaxation more often?

We would love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a comment so that we can notice how you feel.

Peace.

Cecil McIntosh, Mississauga Spiritual Relaxation Coach with over 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, gifted Teacher, Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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If I were to ask you, “How do you relax”, what will you tell me?

You may tell me that you relax when you go home and you are with your family.

Or when you go to the gym and work out.

Perhaps you may say that you relax when you go to Yoga classes.

The lists of WAYS you think you are relaxing goes on and on and on.

Interestingly enough, we are always going SOMEWHERE to find SOMETHING.

So what would happen if I told you to do one the following three things?

• TAKE AWAY your special time with your family. 
•  CANEL your gym membership. 
•  You are not ALLOWED to practice yoga.

You get the picture.

Let’s look at your three possible responses to having these restrictions.

 Physically, you will probably tighten up and stop breathing. 

Mentally, your negative thoughts may become so profound that you will probably feel like screaming. 

Emotionally, you may end up in the doctor’s office, and as a result, you’ll begin taking prescription drugs and/or resort to consuming excessive amounts of coffee as a way of dealing with your uncomfortable feelings.

OK, Spiritual relaxation to the rescue.

To me, spiritual relaxation means to be able to be in the moment and enjoy what is going on.

YOU do not need to go ANYWHERE to do ANYTHING.

Listen I’m not kidding around… 

You don’t believe me?

I thought so.

That’s fair.

Let me show you how dead serious I am…

After teaching this process for over 14 years, my students initially find this concept foreign, but soon they discovered that it is the most effective, natural way to relax.

So here’s what else is in store for you…

An introduction to a profound change in your consciousness.

Up until now, you have probably done it occassionally but here’s the most important part…

You do not have to wait until you go away on holiday. You’ll be glad to know you can start right now.

So remember, this process is very simple and you’re going to love it or not. It is called Spiritual Relaxation.

What is Spiritual Relaxation?

It is being in the moment and not having to go anywhere to relax. No longer do you have to wait until you go on vacation to relax or take a break.

Where ever you are is OK, at the moment. There is no need to have to go to the gym, to go to Yoga, to go home to be with the family.

We can relax right where we are.

You may wonder why you have been looking for anxety and stress relief but unable to find it.

Let’s face it, all you have to do is stop multitasking.

I am not kidding. You have  been told that when you multitask you get more done. RIGHT.

SORRY, You have been misinformed.  

This example of Spiritual Relaxation is going to surprise you.

The next time you have a cup of coffee, I want you to have it in a different location.

If you’re a business entrepreneur who works from home, I want you to have your coffee in another room in your house outside of your home office.

While you drink your coffee, please, do not read the paper, use your phone, watch TV or listen to the radio.

Just be with your coffee. It’s not as easy as it sounds.

That’s my example of spiritual relaxation.

Your feed back is always welcomed. So give us a shout and tell us what you think.

Cecil McIntosh, Mississauga Spiritual Relaxation Coach with over 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, gifted Teacher, Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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Health and fitness are partners in living a happy and fulfilling life. It is nearly impossible to enjoy your life to the fullest without being healthy. Part of being healthy is being physically fit.

Your quality of life will decrease if you are obese, abusing drugs or alcohol, or not getting the rest your body needs.

We want the best quality of life that is possible. A good health and a fitness program will help us have that.

What is the most overlooked key to health and fitness?

One of the most important and most overlooked keys to good health is starting your day with breakfast. Your body has gone without food for the night as you slept. You need to fill up your tank before you start the day.

This has several benefits; the most important being it jump-starts your metabolism and helps you burn fat.

Here are some good choices for breakfast…

Good choices for breakfast include whole grain cereals, yogurt and fruit, and whole grain toast with peanut butter. You will notice that foods with refined sugars are not included in what is considered a healthy breakfast!

Ok, I understand I need to have a healthy breakfast. How do I make physical activity  a part of my day?

How can you make physical activity a part of your day?

Stay active during your day. You can make time for physical activity even if you are holding down a job or spending six hours in class. Try to get in at least 30 minutes of exercise each day.

OK, let’s look at some simple ways to stay active.

There are simple ways to get in physical activities. Use stairs instead of an elevator and park farther out in the parking lot and walk those few extra steps. Take a break every hour when you get up and get your body moving.

We love to hear your comments. So go ahead and tell us what you think. 

Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, Teacher,Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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Oscar Wilde is quoted as saying: Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are.

Man was he wrong. From my experience, when anyone is genuinely validated they melt like butter.

It”s time for you to learn the secret of validation that causes the people around you to relax and forget about stress only if momentary.

So sit back relax hit the play button below, watch this video and try not to smile.

Where you able to keep a straight face? I didn’t think so.

With an exclusive stress management system you will learn how to apply validation on a daily basic.

So Cecil why would I want to practice validation on a daily basic?

Well here’s the validation (over 2.1 million views on YouTube alone.). With validation you can say goodbye to prescription drugs or coffee addictions which only deliver temporary happiness.

So what do you think?

When was the last time you were validated?

What was that experience like?

When was the last time you validated someone?

What would happen if more people practice validation on a daily basis?

So what are your thoughts on Validation? We love to hear your comments

Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, Teacher,Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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Laugh!

Watch children playing and laughing in the park or on the school playground. Laughing is contagious. Try it, you’ll soon find others laughing right with you. What a great source of coping with stress.

Eating healthy, resting fully, and exercising regularly helps release tension and anxiety.

Eat healthy, rest fully, and exercise regularly. These three things can go far in helping you cope with stress and anxiety. Giving your body the proper nutrition will keep you healthier and help your self-esteem.

Allowing your body to relax and rejuvenate while you sleep will help you prepare for any stress that may come your way the following day.

Physical activity will help you feel and look better. When you feel and look better, your self-esteem grows and you feel more confident in facing life’s stress. Choose an activity that you like and makes you feel happy, and then take part in that activity at least five times a week.

Dance, walk and play are simple ways to reduce anxiety and stress

You can dance, walk, play with children or grandchildren, jog, or go bowling. All are good physical activities that help us cope with normal stress and anxiety.

It is normal for all of us to feel periods of stress and anxiety. If we are not able to cope with them, we are doing our bodies harm and threatening our own survival.

We would love to hear your comments. So go ahead and tell us what you think.

Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, Teacher, Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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What else can we do to relieve stress and anxiety? Get the proper amount of rest. While you are sleeping your body is making repairs and balancing all parts of your body.

Your brain and heart is resting and preparing for the next day. Your brain is the part of the body that is the most closely related to stress. Without the proper amount of rest, it does not handle stress and anxiety the way it was designed to.

OK, how much rest do we really need for stress relief?

What is the proper amount of rest? Each of us has an internal clock that lets us know when we are getting the right amount of rest. Some may be comfortable getting five or six hours of rest each night, others may not feel up to par if they don’t get eight to ten hours.

Your body knows how much rest it needs, listen to your internal clock. This leads to the question of exercise.

Is exercise good for stress and anxiety?

Many of us do not like to hear about this stress reliever. It is exercise. Yes, physical activity will help relieve feelings of stress and anxiety!

What if you don’t like to exercise?

There are many ways of getting the physical activity that your body needs. Pick an activity that you enjoy and take part in that activity five days a week.

Dancing is enjoyable to many people, and it is great exercise. Take your pet for a walk, enjoy the nature in your local park, or get on that bike that has been stored in your garage!

Do I need to check with my doctor to see if I am physically fit?

If you are starting an exercise program for the first time, check with your doctor to be sure you can physically take part in your choice of exercise. Remember, even a small amount of physical activity is better than none at all. Start slow and add speed and more activities are you are comfortable with them.

So, here’s the secret:

Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the Empty Your Cup Process™. An exclusive stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil  is also a Healer, Teacher,Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com  

 

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Everyone at some time in their life has to deal with stress and anxiety issues. Many, sadly, try to deal with stress and anxiety by turning to alcohol or drugs, sometimes both.

Anxiety and stress relief can be yours by just changing a few simple items in your lifestyle.

Can eating a healthy diet reduce your stress and anxiety?

So what would happen if you added some fresh fruit and vegetables to your life style?

Fresh fruits and vegetables can be easily exchanged for sugary treats high in sugar and low in anything that is healthy.

Plan your diet around foods high in fiber, and low in salt and transfats. Eating a balanced diet can help you even out your emotions and moods and help you reduce any stress and anxiety you have in your life.

When is a good time to eat healthy?

I know this goes against everything we were taught when we were growing, but will make us healthier as we begin to age.

How often do you skip breakfast?

So here’s the thing..

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“Fibromyalgia Is Like a Bruise That Covers Your Entire Body”

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Before the performance, choreographer Tyce Diorio explained, “I just felt compelled to talk about breast cancer and a friend who was faced with it.” The piece moved the entire judging panel to tears. Nigel Lythgoe proclaimed that it reminded him why he loved dance so much and, “If this isn’t a [an Emmy] nomination next year, I’ll be hugely surprised.” Nigel called the powerful lifts and leaps amazing, and admitted he completely lost it when Melissa pounded her fists against Ade’s chest.

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Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping  Entrepreneurs like you, transform stress into success. He is the creator of the EYC™ Process. A stress management  system for managing fear, anger and the uncertainty that results from constant change. Cecil is also a Healer, Teacher,Therapist, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com 

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