Six Quick Stress Relief Tips

Six quick stress relief tips - work stress, family stress, financial stress - stress triggers are all around you and you can’t avoid them all. However, a few lifestyle changes will lower your stress level and make it a better day. Here are six stress relief tips you can employ starting today.

1. Drive in the slow lane.

What’s your hurry? Life in the fast lane is a race. Let them pass. Slow down and stay in the slow lane. You’ll get there feeling much more relaxed.

2. No more caffeine or soda?

Imagine a day without coffee or tea or soda? You bet. Coffee and tea are loaded with the stimulant drug, caffeine. Caffeine causes the heart to beat faster and blood vessels to dilate.

This “nervous” reaction actually creates perceived stress. So, switch to decaf and, if you must drink soda, choose a sugar-free, caffeine-free variety. Enjoy the day at a slightly slower pace.

3. Is talking about stress relief any good?

Amazingly, if you simply talk to a close friend or therapist about your feelings of anxiety, it will help relieve some of that anxiety. One critical point, here. Don’t discuss your feelings of stress with an individual who’s causing the stress. Talk to a sympathetic, neutral party.

Be truthful, be open and feel the stress drain from your body.

4. Does Breathing help?

This sounds so simple but the fact is, when we’re under a great deal of stress we forget to breathe. Have you ever found yourself holding your breath during a conference at work, or when you’re stuck in traffic? Be aware of your breathing. Inhale deeply.

Hold for a second and then slowly exhale. Continue to oxygenate the body in stressful situations to perform at your best.

5. How is accumulating debt related to stress?

People joke about “retail therapy” but it’s not a joke. Some people head for the mall when feeling anxious to “buy” their way out of that negative feeling. The result? Debt.

Increasing credit card balances. And more stress. You can’t buy your way to serenity and, in fact, you’re actually making a difficult situation even more so.

6. Find “me” time in each day.

Quiet, uninterrupted time spent alone, eyes closed, sitting or lying in a comfortable position and turning off conscious thought will do wonders in lowering levels of stress. Some people call it a “power nap” because it only takes 20 minutes a day and you bounce back refreshed, clear-headed and ready to take on the world. 20 minutes a day, just for you, will change your life.

So what is the moral?

We can’t eliminate the stress triggers that surround us but we can make simple changes in lifestyle to lessen the negative impact stress has on our physiology. So relax, slow down, lose the stimulants and stop spending money you don’t have. You’ll be amazed at just how peaceful life can be.

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Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping Entrepreneurs like you, stay focused, get more done and find more time, so that you can live in the moment. He is a published author of many audio Relaxation Programs using accelerated learning approaches and a Teacher, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can
reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com

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Stress relief from Depression: Rage Turned Inward

Chances are, if you’re depressed you’re also angry. Even enraged. Maybe you’re angry at a distance spouse, an unreasonable boss or just the world in general. When anger has no place to go, i.e. you can’t vent at your boss (if you want to keep your job), it turns inward and, as it accumulates, it becomes depression.

Is it easier to deal with rage than depression?

It’s much easier to deal with anger than it is with depression. By the time you reach a state of depression, damage to your psychic well-being has already been done. Anger can be resolved quickly, without psycho-therapy, potentially addictive medications
(many Prozac users call themselves ‘lifers’) and a lot of money down the drain. The key is to recognize the anger, what sets it off and how to release it - let it go so that it doesn’t turn toxic and cloud your whole day - or your whole life.

Where can you find help for Anger Management?

There are tons of books on the subject. Lots of seminars, court-ordered classes and people caught in jobs or family situations that are just one sarcastic comment away from going ballistic - and perhaps hurting others.

The kids who are shooting their classmates are angry - angry at the bullying and the social isolation, angry that their lives aren’t like the lives of kids they see on the TV. They feel cheated and lied to, which leads to anger that doesn’t have an outlet. So, these
kids and their depressed friends and family members continue to suppress anger until it becomes a full-blown, sometimes-debilitating condition.

But it’s not just kids who are going ballistic. Check out these numbers to see if you, or a family member or friend, fit into one of these categories:

18.8 million Americans are affected by bipolar disorder (unexplained emotional highs and lows), dysthymic disorder (inappropriate reactions to routine, daily activities like getting stuck in a traffic jam) and depression (loss of focus, desire, libido, energy - the individual becomes a dried up husk of a human being leading a joyless life). Sound like you? If so, you’re not alone.

Get this: the largest population segment using psychotropic medications are pre-schoolers! That should send a shiver down your spine.

More than half of survey respondents believe that depression is simply a personal weakness. (You’ll snap out of it).

15% of depressed individuals will commit suicide - the final act of desperation and an avoidable, treatable condition.

Depression limits your ability to make even simple functional decisions - like what to have for dinner. It’s no way to live.

Can you learn to live with Anger?

The person who cuts you off on the way to work gets you angry. But he’s gone and in a few minutes the incident will be forgotten. Routinely, anger dissipates over time for most people.

However, those with a “short fuse’ create problems for themselves and those around them. Usually, these quick-to-anger individuals have family problems, they have difficulty keeping a job and building a career and, in many cases, they don’t have any social network
- support for coping with anger.

Would you like 10 anger Management Tips?

1. Recognize the triggers that set you off and avoid them whenever possible. If your mother-in-law angers you, avoid her (except at holidays and special occasions). You don’t have a responsibility to like everyone and everyone won’t like you.

2. Create a dialog with the individual that is causing anger. It should be a discussion to come to terms, not a shouting match in the office hallway.

3. Find a recreational outlet. Physical activity is always a good way to let anger flow from the body but any hobby that takes your mind off the anger is helpful in combating the more serious problem of depression.

4. Build a support network. There is any number of clubs and associations that will welcome you just as you are.

5. Do good works. Help a stranger. Help a friend. Provide comfort to a relative. Doing good counteracts the effects of the anger collected that day. It just makes you feel good.

6. Don’t self-medicate with alcohol or drugs. These mask the problem but don’t solve it. You want to develop a clear view of your situation and mind-altering substances are simply counter-productive.

7. Join an anger management group. If you’re unable to control your anger in routine situations, there are free anger management classes in many communities. You don’t have to go off the deep end before seeking treatment. In fact, going proactive is a
positive step in the right direction. You’ll feel better just taking that step.

8. Meditate, or just sit quietly for 20 minutes a day. Take the phone off the hook, close the door, get into a comfortable position, close your eyes and drift away. Do NOT fume about the things that are making you angry.

9. Eat a healthy diet. If you’re living on chips and beer, no wonder you’re depressed. Eat better, feel better.

10. Find something in which to believe. It doesn’t have to be a religion. It can be a community group or a personal growth project. Discover something you can really put your heart in to.

Final Thoughts

Finally, contact a professional in anger management. A few sessions on clearing negative thoughts and building in “me” time each day will do wonders for the anger you feel. And as the anger slowly ebbs, the depression and the associated symptoms will decrease as well.

So, if you’re depressed chronically, just remember, there are many things you can do to address the underlying anger that’s the cause of your depression.

Depression is rage turned inward. Who or what are you angry with? That’s a good starting point for a happier, more productive life.

Lastly,learn to let it go. Anger is corrosive, eating away at your happiness. Learning to find healthy release valves for your anger will make life better for you and those important people in your life.

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Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping Entrepreneurs like you, stay focused, get more done and find more time, so that you can live in the moment. He is a published author of many audio
Relaxation Programs using accelerated learning approaches and a Teacher, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com

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When last have you had your annual physical?

Ignoring you annual physical? Are you guilty of looking after your material asset and forsaken your health?

Listen to Episode 19 to determine if you are guilty as charged.

Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Circuit Breaker with 14 years of experience helping Entrepreneurs like you, stay focused, get more done and find more time, so that you can live in the moment. He is a published author of many audio Relaxation Programs using accelerated learning approaches and a Teacher, NLP Trainer and Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com

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Got the Blues (Depression)? It May Be a Serious Problem

We all have days when we’re “down in the dumps.” Moods change depending on everything from the day’s weather to a song playing on the radio. Most people chalk up these down days as just a part of life. And for most people, they cope.

However, when the “blues” hit and don’t leave, when you’re trying to cope with depression, life becomes more difficult and, if you do experience depression, you’re far from alone. Let’s look at the stats on depression.

Statistics on Depression

In the U.S., 9.5% of the adult population (age 18 or older) experiences depression at some time during any given year.

An Australian study showed that everyone, at some point, will be affected by depression, figures comparable to statistics from other industrialized, high-pressure countries.

Women are more likely to experience depression. 30% of women are depressed. For decades, men were thought to experience depression at half the rate of women but more recent testing indicates that the numbers for men are significantly higher. (They just don’t talk about it because it’s viewed as a sign of weakness.

Only two out of 10 depressed people seek treatment, despite the fact that long-term depression can harm physical health.

Figures show that depression costs U.S. industry more than $50 billion dollars in lost productivity as more and more employees take “mental health” days.

Standard Treatments for Depression

Standard medical practice looks for the quick fix - the magic pill to solve the problem or provide a cure. And the pharmaceutical industry has come up with a number of medications that have shown varying degrees of success in addressing the problem.

Anti-depressants like Prozac, Zoloft and Paxil have helped some people - 35-40% of patients.

That means as many as 65% of depressed people won’t find relief through conventional medical treatment - a startling statistic.

Psychotherapy has shown limited success with more than 80% of patients falling back into depression, even as therapy continued. In addition, cognitive behavioral therapies (CBT) are expensive, costing tens of thousands of dollars and many patients continue therapy for years. Some are lifers.

What Causes Depression?

Chronic depression can be caused by many factors. Emotional trauma, especially during the childhood years, can lead to a lifetime of depression along with its associated symptoms of fatigue, lack of motivation and drive and social isolation.

Depression is also caused in adulthood by the loss of a job or the death of a spouse. Divorce and other emotional upheavals contribute to chronic depression. Poor health, financial problems and the stresses of modern life all add up to a potent cocktail of stressors. And stress, over a period of time, leads to depression - a feeling of hopelessness and helplessness.

In rare cases, depression is caused by hormonal imbalances within the body. Men and women do experience mood swings as the body’s endocrine system produces more or less of a specific hormone throughout the month and throughout a lifetime. However, it’s important to note that many people who assume their depression is simply a part of their body’s natural bio-rhythm rarely have mood swings based on hormonal imbalance. Most frequently, depression comes from external, not internal, forces.

What works?

There have been numerous studies done on the subject of what actually works in alleviating depression.

Good, solid supportive relationships are critical to combating chronic depression. Developing a good support system enables depressed patients to rely on others for a sympathetic ear and on-going support.

An understanding of the causes of depression has also shown to deliver positive results. As people change their attitudes about depression, and are no longer fearful of admitting it to friends and to themselves, depression becomes less severe.

Understanding that depression can be controlled and managed - without medication. Stress management techniques, such as neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), have shown positive, long-term results in patients who undergo this client-centered therapy.

Improving self-esteem and building self-respect have also been shown to improve the limiting aspects of depression.

Exercise works. A brisk walk in the morning causes the brain to release endorphins - naturally produced chemicals that create a feeling of well-being.

Meditation - even for short periods of time each day - have been shown to decrease the effects of depression. Meditation relaxes the body, mind and spirit, providing a clearer perspective on feelings and their causes.

Owning a pet has been shown to relieve depression. Today, many nursing homes keep a “house” cat for patients to enjoy. Pets and other animals help eliminate depression.

There is hope. Hope everywhere you look. There are numerous treatment options available to you if you experience depression or bi-polar symptoms. However, these solutions won’t come to you. You have to seek them out.

Admitting there’s a problem is an important first step but it’s only step one. You have to become pro-active to find the right combination of therapies that work for you. It’s a process and it may take some experimentation to find the right combination of treatments. But don’t give up. There is light at the end of the tunnel.

And that light is your bright future.

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Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping Entrepreneurs like you, stay focused, get more done and find more time, so that you can live in the moment. He is a published author of many audio Relaxation Programs using accelerated learning approaches and a Teacher, NLP Trainer and life Coach. You can reach Cecil at cecil.mcintosh@gmail.com

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Hypertension and Stress: You Have to Take Control

In the medical community, it’s called hypertension but most of us just call it high blood pressure. It’s a very serious condition that can lead to the #1 killer of men and women - a heart attack. The numbers speak for themselves:

Nearly one in three adults (33%) have high blood pressure.

Of those diagnosed with hypertension, 72% knew about their condition and the dangers it poses.

In the U.S., 72 million people over the age of 20 have high blood pressure - that means that young people, just starting out in life, are at risk of heart attack.

Blood pressure is easily diagnosed.

Death rates among various populations per 100,000 individuals: 15.6 in white males, 49.9 among black males, 14.3 for white females and 40.6 deaths per 100,000 were reported among black females.

What are the contributing factors to hypertension?

In addition, we all know the contributing factors of this well-publicized, life-threatening medical condition: obesity, lack of exercise, smoking, high levels of cholesterol in the blood and so on. The symptoms of high blood pressure are usually treated with different medicines, and patients are told to change their lifestyles for the healthier.

Is a lifestyle change enough?

Okay, when it comes to our own health, most of us can eat a healthier diet, walk around the block each morning, quit smoking and cut down on foods high in fat. However, a lifestyle change may not be enough to address one of the best-known causes of hypertension and heart attack - and that’s stress.

Stress is a natural, physiological reaction to perceived danger. And we live in a stress-filled world, working our way to the top, raising families and trying to have it all. Stress is a fact of contemporary life. Everything from the morning traffic jam to an unsatisfying marriage will create stress. And stress is corrosive, not only to the spirit but to the body, as well.

Is managing stress unachievable?

Managing stress in your life may seem like an unachievable goal but, indeed, you can lower levels of stress and, in turn, lower your blood pressure, lessening the likelihood of a heart attack down the road.

Is Stress Management necessary?

It’s difficult to avoid the stressors in life - the unreasonable boss, the guy who cuts you off, the stack of bills waiting to be paid - stressors are everywhere. Unavoidable, in fact. So, if you can’t avoid the things that trigger the natural stress response, it’s essential to learn to control your responses to stress and to manage the stress in your life just as you manage your time.

Does stress come from external or internal sources?

Stress comes from external sources. You internalize stress and it becomes a part of you. Managing stress involves breaking the cycle of stress inducing more stress. It may sound selfish, but quiet, contemplative time each day, alone, will do wonders for your heart health and your emotional health, as well.

Do you need to take time off?

Some people simply don’t allow themselves “time off,” so the stresses continue to build. By setting aside 20 minutes each day, just for you and you alone, you’ll feel better emotionally and be better physically.

How important is your short and long term health?

I know, it’s not as easy as it sounds but we are talking about your short- and long-term health. It’s true, people in their 20s experience hypertension. It’s a stress-filled world in which we live. Turning off the natural response to stress will go a long way in living a longer (and happier) life.

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