Getting stress relief from her partners
by Empty Your Cup Relaxation Coach · Filed Under: General Updates · Stress and your Relationship
Mary was looking for stress relief from her partners (she expected them to be her knights in shining armor).This need became a ,stressful situation; Mary discovered that her partners over the years could not give her stress relief. She had many wonderful partners but none of them could satisfy her desire. Then one day, Mary was touched by an awesome awareness.
Let me explain.
Mary met a partner who had a wonderful “quality of kindness”. This kindness look like her solution to all stressful situations or so she thought. Mary admired this quality and eagerly wanted to experience this “quality of kindness”.
Ultimate solution
Mary thought that this quality could be accomplished as easily and instantly as swiping a credit card. She expected that this would be herultimate solution of stress relief to her relationship challenges. Mary’s expectation of the “quality of kindness” as the solution to her relationship challenges soon faded away because of other factors.
Other Factors
You see there were other factors to consider. One of these factors was behavior. Mary noticed that there were other behaviors that she did not like because they created stressful situations. She also was not prepared to accept her partner’s shortcomings.
After many years of disappointing relationships Mary finally had a profound understood that in order for her to experience this “quality of kindness” and stress relief, she first had to find it within herself.
Secondly she needed to accept her own shortcomings.
So what is the moral of the story?
The “quality of kindness” is found inside you and there is no need to go looking outside yourself creating more stressful situations while looking for stress relief.
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Cecil McIntosh, The EYC™ Stress Relaxation Expert with 14 years of experience helping Entrepreneurs like you, stay focused, get more done and find more time, so that you can live in the moment. He is a published author of many audio Relaxation Programs using accelerated learning approaches and a Teacher, NLP Trainer and Coach. You can reach Cecil at
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