Relationship Tip: Are You Missing This Bedrock Principle To Improve Your Relationship?

Improve Your Relationship - Embrace and SmileThe success of entrepreneurs and solopreneurs to improve your relationship depends on the ability to make the necessary adjustments.
 
However, despite many years of trying you may not have been able to achieve your dream.
 
Now I am here to reveal a simple solution to you and I would prefer if you see this information as the years of your futility coming to an end rather than beating yourself up.
 
This principle is about making adjustments to improve your relationship.
 
My partner is a nurse and every two weeks her hours of work changes from 7am to 3pm to 3pm to 11pm.

I’ve made that adjustment. The whole thing is you’re supposed to support your partner. That’s how I do it.

I support her by being with her and spending time with her. This means every two weeks I’m on a different time schedule but it allows our relationship to grow.

She knows it doesn’t matter what shift she’s on, I’ll spend some time with her.

In a partnership, we need to understand adjustments have got to be made. You partner might get a promotion or travel a lot. It’s just the nature of the business. You need to make the adjustments.

You can’t say, “This is the way it was before we met and it’s supposed to continue this way.” Life changes so quickly that we don’t have a say in the matter. The secret is how you make the adjustments to whatever is presented to you.

What we teach in our process is you need to be able to make the adjustment no matter what is presented to you. Make the adjustment, refocus, and relax anywhere anytime, in spite of what’s happening around you.

That’s the key. It’s the only way you can go because you have no say in how things are going to work out. If you have the tools to make the adjustments then it’s irrelevant what happens, you don’t really care.

Now that you understand the secret principle on how to improve your relationship, you can consider accepting your partner unconditionally because you are getting something in return.

What is so exciting about these new perspectives, is that they can accelerate the journey on your road of relationship success, or revive a flagging effort you may have abandoned, and inject you with new hope and energy.

Cecil McIntosh guides solo-preneurs and entrepreneurs worldwide to slow down, learn to relax, stress less and overcome chronic symptoms so that you can quickly experience profound peace, power and work life balance. You can get the other 20 Tips of 21 no-brainer shortcuts to achieving health and happiness at http://eycfreebook.com You can reach Cecil at http://www.cecilhelpdesk.com

  

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Stop Overwhelm In Its Tracks: 2 Simple, Relaxation Tips on How To Better Your Relationship…

Better Your Relationship While Jogging on the BeachIn all my years of working with entrepreneurs and solopreneurs many of their challenges are about how to better your relationships.
 
As you know we are all looking for a partner who is supportive and on the same path?
 
There are several myths that can compound this problem. I am here to share one of these myths with you and reveal the real truth behind this myth.
 
Here’s the myth:
Stress causes you to be angry with your partner because your partner works long hours

Wayne: Is that all because of stress?

Cecil: Yes and no.

The issue is that you know what kind of work your partner is doing. For example, my wife is a nurse and works 7:00 to 3:00.

She’s supposed to finish work at 3:00. If someone is admitted to the floor around 2:45, my wife could be there another hour and a half.

Tip #1:

If I go pick her up after work and she tells me she has to work another hour and a half, there’s nothing I can get upset about.

That’s just the nature of her work. You need to understand that’s just the way it is.

Some of us understand this. There’s no point in getting angry with the person.

Wayne: I would think you are very unique there. Most people who have to wait for their spouse for an hour and a half would be going crazy.

Cecil: Initially, I wondered about it but what I discovered is that is the nature of her business. To put it in context, I work from home.

My clients know I go pick up my wife at 3:00 so there are no appointments then. The whole thing is about understanding the nature of the business.

Wayne: So you readjusted your schedule.

Tip #2:

Cecil: I have to make the adjustment in my life and say, “Here’s what it is.” Another example, my wife also works 3:00 to 11:00. I need to make an adjustment and I choose to make this adjustment. When she comes home at 12:30 at night, I can spend some time with her.

This means every two weeks I’m on a different vibration. We teach in our relaxation programs that you can’t decide how you want to live your life. You’ve got to take the situations and make adjustments to them. When my wife comes home late at night, instead of her being up alone and I’m sleeping, I spend one or two hours with her.

One of the biggest obstacles that prevent entrepreneurs and solopreneurs from learning how to better your relationship with your partner is the ability to adjust to circumstances and go with the flow.

I hope I have helped to change your thinking. When you realize how simple and easy it is to improve your relationship on a daily basis, you will look forward with excitement to search and find more opportunities to have fun each day.

Cecil McIntosh guides solo-preneurs and entrepreneurs worldwide to slow down, learn to relax, stress less and overcome chronic symptoms so that you can quickly experience profound peace, power and work life balance. You can get the other 20 Tips of 21 no-brainer shortcuts to achieving health and happiness at http://eycfreebook.com You can reach Cecil at http://www.cecilhelpdesk.com

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